Part 17: Good Stress/Bad Stress: What Everyone Should Know
By: Susan Kephart,
Stress is the "wear and tear" on our bodies as we adjust to change. Stress reveals itself in the physical, emotional and mental response we exhibit, regardless of whether the change is good or bad. The extra burst of adrenaline that helps a student finish a final paper, win at sports or meet any other challenge is positive stress. “Students who do not manage their stress well cannot function at their peak performance academically. Therefore, it is important for students, parents and grandparents to understand how to handle stress,” stated Susan Kephart, psychologist at Potomac State College of WVU.
As a positive influence, stress is a short-term physiological tensing and added mental alertness that subsides when the challenge has been met, enabling the student to relax and carry on with normal activities. Using the analogy of a rubber band, positive stress is just the right amount of stress needed to stretch the band and make it useful; negative stress snaps the band.
As a negative influence, stress can cause feelings of distrust, rejection, anger, or depression. It can also cause changes in the body such as, increased heart rate, higher blood pressure, and stomach and muscle tension. After a while, these things will begin to take their toll leading to mental and physical exhaustion or illness. As a direct result, stress impacts a person’s health, thus reducing the ability to reach academic and career goals.
Signs of stress could reveal themselves in many different ways including an increase in the following: use of alcohol or other drugs, boredom and fatigue, procrastination, problems with making decisions, being anxious and confused, the inability to concentrate, shortness of breath, and problems eating or sleeping. Other symptoms include hostile or angry feelings, overpowering urges to cry, frequent indigestion or diarrhea, and frequent colds and infections.
Our goal is not to eliminate stress, but to learn how to manage it. Anyone experiencing stress symptoms has already gone past the optimal balance. Just as there are many sources of stress, there are also many techniques to manage stress levels.
Whether a person knows it or not, they have been coping with stress since they were a child, using skills copied or learned from family and friends. However, now is the time to learn new techniques for managing various levels of stress. The following is a list of tips a person can incorporate to help them to manage stress better:
If you are a student-parent attending college, taking care of your children’s needs, handling financial matters, holding down a job, keeping up with community activities and social obligations, then your life can seem like a juggling act at times.
If you find yourself running from one obligation to another, STOP, set aside a half hour each day that belongs solely to you. It might be early in the morning or later in the evening after your children have gone to bed. Breaking your routine is another way to deal with a demanding schedule. This can be as simple as driving home a different way, shopping at a different store or turning the radio to a different station.
Finding a balance is not as difficult at it may seem. It may take a little “Creativity 101,” but by following the tips listed above and a few additional ones, you’ll find that achieving balance is all a matter of effort, patience, planning, a sense of humor and a little well-earned selfishness.
According to Kephart, “One of the goals of the counseling office is to provide support services in order for students to be successful. Therefore, I provide a lot of intervention to help students design individualized strategies to manage stress.”
Expect some frustrations, failures, and sorrows, but don’t let them become overwhelming, it’s all a part of the learning process. Stress should be viewed as something that can be coped with rather than something that is overpowering. Set realistic goals and don’t try to do it all; learn to say no when obligations become overwhelming.
Be good to yourself and take a break, even if it’s just for a few minutes a day. Take a “mental vacation” by picturing a beach, the mountains or anywhere else that’s relaxing. Don’t wait for encouragement from others, positive thinking is a great stress reliever.
Should you begin feeling overwhelmed, contact your local
school psychologist or other health provider at your institution or in your community. For nationwide information visit the
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Potomac State College of West Virginia University at http://www.potomacstatecollege.edu or
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Community and Technical College System of West Virginia at http://www.wvtechprep.wvnet.edu (304-558-2411)